ADVOCATING 4 KIDS

Who do I find to help advocate my childs needs at a Virginia Beach IEP meeting. 

This is a transition and a IEP meeting.  Oct.15, 2009  My daughter is 17.9

Hello Blogmates:

Norfolk City Public City has one of the worst records for providing appropriate services for special education students in the Hamptons Roads and Tidewater area. Within the last two months, 3 due process hearing have been filed against this city because of the district inability, to honor the mandates under both federal and state laws.

Today, September 14, 2009, at 9:30 Lois Manes a special education attorney will begin a due process hearing against Norfolk City Public School district and you are invited and welcomed to attend this open hearing. Please come and learn what is involved in a due process case, and offer support to the parent.

Issues of the case include:

Norfolk City Public failed to identify all the student’s disabilities.

Norfolk City Public School committed the student to the Virginia Beach Psychiatric Center for 5  days, but failed to provide the student with any educational services once he was released, failed to conduct a FBA and BIP and refused to provide homebound services after release from Psychiatric Center.

Norfolk City Public School refused to implement the corrective actions plan charged to them by the Virginia Department of Education.

This hearing is scheduled for five days

Dates: September 14, 15, 23, 29,  and October 6th

Times: 9:30 to 5:00 (September 29th time is 1:30 to 5:00)

Location: Norfolk School Administration Building
800 E City Hall Ave Norfolk VA 23510
12th Floor Board Room

Please email Judy Fischer at spedsupportgroup@ aol.com if you plan on attending

PLEASE COME AND SHOW SUPPORT FOR THIS PARENT AND CHILD AGAINST A DISTRICT WHO APPEARS TO USE DECEPTION AND TRICKERY TO HARM SPECIAL NEEDS CHILDREN!

Dear Blogmates,

Please see a the link below about how Alison Jordan a Virignia Beach Special Education Coordinator , and  Mrs. Kimberly Dailey the 7th grade principal at Larkspur Middle school  have been accused of physically assaulting a PARENT at an IEP team meeting at Larkspur Middle School. I personally believe the assault happened, in that I have attended numberous IEP meeting with Mrs. Jordan who in my opinion is down right hateful towards  anyone who challenges her position.  I have also been informed that Ms.  Jordan and Mrs.  Dailey were arrested and charged with misdemeanors of assault and the court date is July 22, 2009.

Parents of special education students  in Virginia Beach City Public Schools, now need to protection from being assaulted by Ms. Jordan at IEP meetings. I highly suggest that you demand her Supervisor, Mr. Mitchell attend your meetings especially if your child’s at Larkspur Middle School. Otherwise you may  run the risk of better physical harm at the IEP meetings.

It is shame that the Dr. Massey the Superintendent for all Virginia Beach City Middle Schools supports and allows this kind of behaviors under his watch. It’s a sad day when we as parents not only have to protect our children from harm in our schools, now we have to protect ourselves for being assaulted by school personnel. ONLY IN VIRGINIA BEACH can this kind of injustice be considered as “professional ” behavior!

Happy Advocating

Cheryl A Poe

  http://news.skelter.net/articles/2009/06/13/mom-attacked-by-virginia-beach-school-administrators-at-iep-meeting

The times that I have called to be put on the list to speak at public comment to the school board have been really discourageing.  I am asked what it is in reference to and after I say what ever the reason is then I have been told more than once that I have your concern written down and can present it so if I do not want to attend I don’t have too.  I ask shouldn’t i attend anyway and I am told its up to you but if you change your mind just call back and we can remove your name.  To all parents if you are told this do not call and remove your name.  You need to be heard!  If you believe someone who you are not paying and is not a very close relative or friend will speak for you than you will not be heard.  You are not alone!  Power is in your voice.  Do not think someone else will report it. 

I made a public comment at the school board meeting held on 2/4/09 about my sons school not having an AED and accessable handicap doors.  I also did a WTKR channel 3 showing on 2/13&14/09 about the AED not being available in my sons school.  I had concerns of these issues due to my childs disabilities.  He has a heart condition, Pulmonary Stenosis, Kohlers disease and ADHD.  He has a 504 in place that has these listed and was never told the school did not have a AED that could save his life if needed.  I thought since his previous schools had them and since it falls under the safe schools program that White Oaks Elemnetary had one.  I had addressed the Principal about the handicap accessable doors and she said “no one has ever complained.”  I think that since I was telling her about it I would consider that a complaint since my son uses a wheelchair when needed.  She also expressed that the school was due for upgrading in 2012.  I asked if she was going to continue to violate the rights of handicap patrons until then?  She said it was a site based decision.  When I asked who was on that committee she told me that it was under the privacy act and did not have to tell me that. 

On February 18th 2009 I was in the school in which I had gotten a volunteer badge  from the new security assistant because I had forgotten my PTA badge at home.  I was in the copy room with the PTA president and I and the 2nd vice president.  We were helping do copies for the SOL schedules.  When I was leaving I went to the front unsecured desk in the lobby and opened the right hand deep drawer and dropped my badge in as I have always done since 2006-2007 school year.  The book that you would sign your badge out and back in was not on the desk so I opened the drawer again to see if it had fallen behind the badges but it wasn’t there so I tried to enter the office as the prrincipal came at a fast pace and abruptly opened the door with one hand on the door frame and one hand on the door handle she asked “can i help you with something?”  I politely said “no” because I was quite able to ask in the office where the books were.  As I tried to continue to pass by her to my left the principal lifted her right knee and thrusted her entire body forward and made full bodied contact.  I was stunned that she was not only blocking me but to use her body to thrust at me physically was stunning.  I was shocked and did not know why this was being done to me.  It was obvious the way she held the door to her body that she was not gonna let me pass.  I stepped to the side and backed up about three or four steps when she asked “did I see you take something from the desk?”  I asked what is the problem?”  I explained I had returned my badge and was looking for the book to sign out because I was leaving.  The policy is sign in and sign out and I had been doing that for a couple of years.  She is very familiar with me  being in the building volunteering.  I am not a threat to the school and have a clean record.  I am a involved parent and have had to advocate for my son on a weekly basis.   She let the door close behind her and I said “don’t ever touch me again”.  She said “well don’t try to pass by me then” “I am the principal” folding her arms across her chest.  Then the assistant principal came to the door and opened it all the way and blocked the door in a open position with the back of his body.  Then someone came to the front desk and she said “you may go now”.  I went in the office and wrote the word ”yes” in the book that I returned my badge.  I went home and and called my husband and we decided that she had assualted me physically so I needed to file charges against her.  So I called the police and followed through with a report as well to Dr McKinney.  I had left her a message that I had been assaulted by the principal and no one called me back until I called again and asked why I could make a report of this magnitude and no one has called me back.  I also asked for a message for Mr Sedone to call me as well.  In the end I have left 3 messages for Mr Sedone and still have not recieved a return call nor do I know if he has gotten my message.  When Dr. Mckinney called me back she said she would turn it over to the compliance department.  I had to ask 4 times for a contact name and phone number for the compliance department person that Dr McKinney had turned it over to.  She kept saying they would investigate and then I would recieve a letter in the mail.  I had not heard anything  as of 3/04/09 and called to check on the status of the investigation when I was told that it was completed.  I asked why my witness had not been contacted and why I had not been contacted.  I was told they only talk to people on “their side”.  I said “Ms Petko is a Va Beach Schools Substute aide.”  I was told she was not on the list as a witness.  I had told Dr Mckinney that Mrs. Petko had witnessed the assualt.  Mrs Williams said she would try to contact her in the next couple of days.  That was on 3/4/09.  This was my third time calling to her.  On 3/4/09 I called Mrs. Lennettee City Attourney and requested a copy of the Video from that day she said she would give information to Mr Freddie Alarcon.  I followed up by EMailing him to request the video and I recieved a EMail that it was in the process of being extracted.  I had recieved my warrant for court then I recieved a certified letter from Mrs Coston dated the 27th of February 2009.  I called the magistrate and was told Mrs. Coston was served on the 23rd of February.  The letter was to intimidate and retaliate.  She has restricted me from volunteering and attending any PTA meetings or PTA related activities at the school or on the school grounds.  I am the 2nd Vice President and have sent an EMail to the board members that I am not stepping down from my position.  She is violating mine and my sons civil rights in which I have sent a letter to the OCR and to the city council and the members of the School board.  The letter she sent has statements that are untrue and is defaming and defimating my character.  I went in front of the school board again on 3/17/09 and demanded that the letter of restrictions be revoked immediately.  Mrs. Coston has instructed the security staff to treat me like a criminal.  I went to court on 3/20/09 and was treated like the criminal again.  The case was dismissed.  The Lawyer for Mrs. Coston had stated she had spoke with the judge earlier that morning.  The judge refused to look at the video at all. I had my testimony and a physical person that witnessed exactly what was on the video.  Mrs. Coston had 6 witnesses that she had supeonad in which 3 of them were not present at the time of the assualt.  The judge allowed the Lawyer for Mrs. Coston to question me and my witness with all out sarcasm and unnessesary body language of sarcasm as well.  But did not allow me to cross examine.  The judge asked if all I had was one witness and a video.  I said yes.  She said case dismissed.  I also have found that Mrs. Coston and her Lawyer allowed the video to be viewed by her so called witnesses in which compromissing the evidence.  Mrs Coston’s family member is also a member of a Firehouse in the area.  The judge was very sarcastic and as I asked to speak she told me no to speak unless asked a question.  I was trying to answer questions and in the middle of my answer I was cut off and told not to talk over anyone.  I am very hurt and disappointed that here I was a victim of unwanted/unwarranted bodily contact and the judicial system did not prevail for me.  This was not the first time she had grabbed me by my arm before the Christmas break and I had told her then not to touch me anymore.  I think it is in my opinion that the judge had already viewed the video and knew it was incriminating and decided not to allow it knowing I could not argue with her to view it or I would be held in contempt.  I think this whole thing was a setup and I am not giving in.  I know I was assaulted and I did nothing wrong.  I will go to the DA and try to get answers and I will continue to follow up with the City Council as well as the School Board.  I would really like to know why Mrs. Coston was not placed on some kind of administrative leave while the investigation was being done.  Instead she was at the school and harrassing myself and my son everyday.            

Thanks Cheryl for all your and Judys help.